Mindblown: a blog about philosophy.

Entering into intimacy with someone who doesn’t genuinely value or respect you can leave marks that go far beyond the moment. What may seem exciting or even comforting in the heat of the moment can later turn into something heavy — feelings of emptiness, lingering regret, or a creeping sense of self-doubt. Physical closeness often…

When my neighbors went on vacation, they left me a voicemail asking if I could cover their door handle with aluminum foil. They didn’t say why, and they sounded hurried, so I agreed without giving it much thought. Standing on their porch with the foil in my hand, I felt a bit ridiculous. Still, I…

Birthdays aren’t really about cakes or candles — they’re about feeling seen, appreciated, and reminded that you matter. And somehow, a simple free meal or treat can transform an ordinary day into something unexpectedly heartwarming. From the first warm bite of breakfast to the last sweet treat at night, each stop becomes more than a…

raised my stepson from age four, quietly dedicating over a decade of my life to his care and growth. At his high school graduation, he thanked “his parents” and his dad’s new wife, omitting me entirely. Despite feeling overlooked, I remained calm and supportive, clapping and smiling from my seat. When I stood and walked…

Morning routines are particularly important for people with high blood pressure and high cholesterol. Certain common habits can silently raise the risk of stroke, heart attack, and atherosclerosis, making it essential to adopt healthier alternatives. One harmful habit is consuming strong coffee or smoking immediately upon waking. High-caffeine coffee spikes heart rate and blood pressure,…

From the start, when he sang with his brothers in the Jackson Five, Michael faced challenges at home. His father was very strict and quick to punish his children if they didn’t follow his rules. One could say Michael Jackson was shaped to become a performer. He seemed destined to be a singer and entertainer…

First impressions carry enormous weight, especially in the professional world, where opportunities often depend on appearance as much as ability. Many people feel pressured to fit a certain image, and one woman is challenging that expectation. She argues that employers judge her solely on how she looks rather than on her character or qualifications, and…

My mom was 45 when she told me she’d met someone new. I remember the way her voice softened, the way her fingers twisted nervously with excitement she couldn’t hide. She’d spent most of her adult life putting everyone else first — work, bills, survival, and me. Love wasn’t just overdue; it was something I…

When I was 10, I received a birthday card from a woman named Nancy. I showed it proudly to my parents, and they brushed it off as a sweet gesture. After that day, the card disappeared, and I never thought about it again. Two decades later, while sorting through my father’s belongings after his passing,…

When I was seventeen, one truth shattered my life: I was pregnant. That single sentence cost me my home, my father’s love, and everything familiar. My dad wasn’t outwardly cruel—just cold and distant, a man who valued order over emotion. When I told him, “Dad, I’m pregnant,” he didn’t shout. He simply opened the door…