For over a decade, my husband, Tom, had gone on the same family vacation\u2014to the islands, for a full week, every single year. And every year, I stayed behind with our kids.<\/p>\n
I had asked, many times, why we couldn\u2019t go. His answer was always the same. \u201cMy mom doesn\u2019t want in-laws there. It\u2019s just immediate family.\u201d And when I pushed about the kids? \u201cI don\u2019t want to spend the whole trip babysitting.\u201dA week before his trip, I couldn\u2019t take it anymore. While Tom was at work, I picked up my phone and called my mother-in-law directly.<\/p>\n
\u201cWhy don\u2019t you allow Tom to take us on vacation? Don\u2019t you consider us family?\u201d I asked, my voice shaking with years of frustration.<\/p>\n
There was a pause. Then she said, confused, \u201cWhat are you talking about, dear?\u201d<\/p>\n
I gripped the phone tighter. \u201cThe trip. Every year. Tom says you don\u2019t want in-laws there.\u201d<\/p>\n
Silence. Then\u2014\u201cMy husband and sons haven\u2019t taken a vacation together in over a decade. We stopped doing those trips when Tom got married.\u201d<\/p>\n
My breath caught in my throat. What?If Tom wasn\u2019t with his family every year\u2026 then where had he been going?<\/p>\n
I ended the call quickly, my mind spinning with confusion. What could he possibly be hiding? I knew Tom was the kind of person who hated conflict, but this felt like something far beyond just avoiding an uncomfortable conversation. My suspicions grew darker as I pieced together the small inconsistencies in his past stories about these \u201cfamily vacations.\u201d<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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